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We originally agreed to live together until Dec this year, so it is me trying to change the agreement; which is why I want to try and sort this out without involving courts, or being nasty etc. If I have to, I will wait til Xmas and then if he is still unable to buy my half then the original agreement would be to sell the house (although I know how much he loves it and wants to stay here). If, at Xmas he is still unable to buy me out and refuses to sell the house then I will pursue it through the courts.
However, if anyone knows of a way I can get out of it now, then please let me know as 9 months feels so long!!!!!!