I am my fathers oldest son, my father married to a woman who is not my mother, they are both 89 years old, my step mother has been placed in a care home, because shecan not look after her need,s by herself, my father has been in hospital for 3 mounths now, and i have been told that he also has to go into care, being that he also is need of looking after, and has demencha, my step brother and his with have looked after my father and there mother, like takeing things to the, and about 3 year,s ago my step brothertook control of my fathers money andpay,s for thing,s that he may need, I was happy with this, when my father and step mother were togever, but now, it,s clear that they will be apart now, and I feel that beeing my father will be in care close to my home, that my step brothers wife need to take control of his money, and I wish to look after my father afair,s and finaces,from now on, P.S, I am 65years old myselfe and disabled, what is my right,s about this...? Thankyou