Will she call me back????

[alanon]

I am a Guy in his 30's, seperated (wife left suddenly, was a real tough time) , should be divorced by year end and and am starting to feel alive again

Am a Christian also so have paramiters & boundaries & dont beleive in sex before marriage, so have been weighing up potential christians for relationship ultimately marriage, prefferably a girl in my Church

then today was in a stationery store ordering some goods & bang!!! this subtly beautifull store-worker (who was polish) comes in and starts talking to me, she was stunning/charming/warm & i felt bowled over!!

Anyway's I bought my thing's and asked to have another look around....how goofy I felt, anyway I put my name, number & a smiley face on the back of a small card and gave it to her (after 25 minutes of hovering about like an idiot!) and headed straight for the door without looking back & my heart was pounding!!

Am i doing the right thing???
Should I stick to my Christiasn convictions?
Will she call me????????

AAARRRGGGHHHH!!!!!! - She was stunning!!!

Cheers people

[bednobs]

she might have the same convictions as you

[sqad617]

alanon
"Am a Christian also so have paramiters & boundaries & dont beleive in sex before marriage,"

As you have been married before having sex with her would be acceptable with thid "polish" girl.

Can't you find an English girl?

[Bbbananas]

...you could always offer to go to English classes with her - spelling, grammar etc.

Oops sorry, that was b1tchy, didn't mean it. ;-(

[puddicat]

Go for it Alan, it seems your faith is holding you back, have a chance at happiness!!

[ummmm]

Well Poland is a Catholic country so she should have the same convictions as you.

Saying that....I'm Catholic, say no more.

[happyone2]

Stop being such a tight A**se and go with the flow !!! she might be the girl ofyour dreams and you dont want to lose her just because you dont believe in sex b4 marriage...........

bit of a quantum leap dont you think ?...............

[Jbird]

If she calls you, then you might start up some kind of relationship with her. You are presumably still waiting to see if she does, so why are you worrying about the sex issue? Just wait and see!! At the end of the day, God is in control of your road and if she is the right girl for you, none of the things that you're currently worrying about will actually matter, because they will be accepted and dealt with.
I think you need to calm down, wait patiently, send a few words up to the big guy and see what happens. If she doesn't call, then you've had your answer. In the mean time, just get on with your life as it is - you may then get a pleasant surprise, opposed to sitting and waiting and potentially being disappointed.
I'll send one up for you! <>< x

[twill]

dude ur being held back from religion. im lutheran/ catholic and just becuz u are dating doesnt mean u have to have sex with her. and idk about giving her ur number and just walking away. go back to the store often and talk to her every time ur there. get some game brother