Do I Go Out Or Stay In Tomorrow?

[abbeylee90]

My friend wants to go out tomorrow but wants to go to hers for 6 but I'm just thinking about money aswell taxi to hers then to town and back or go out with my parents.

[scorpiojo]

I think Abbey means that the date is in the daytime. Possibly.

[elliemay1]

Have you made any New Year Resolutions yet, abbey? I never do!

[abbeylee90]

No I haven't 

[elliemay1]

Well, I hope you will have a lovely night, abbey, whichever decision you make, do you know what you are going to wear?

[scorpiojo]

On Wednesday, you were running out of money, but since then, you've messaged your group of friends to ask if they want to go out, you now have to decide between your friend and your parents, and you have a date (and presumably are not expecting him to pay for everything)?

[abbeylee90]

Ellie may not yet.

Scorp think it will be my parents just have to make an excuse. Well see how long date lasts.

[elliemay1]

Where is your date taking you , abbey?

[abbeylee90]

For a coffee

[abbeylee90]

What do I say to my friend?

[calmck]

Tell your friend the truth. That you are going out with your parents. Don't leave it too late though

[abbeylee90]

Either taxi to expensive to go to hers or don't feel like it

[divegirl]

Good morning Abbey :)

Looks like you have your day planned then...

Go for coffee with the lad you'ver spoken to, then out with your parents in the evening [saving money and maybe a time to tell them how much you love and appreciate them?].

Just tell your mate you have no cash but will see her in the new year... job done!

I'm working till 6.30 tonight and then opening my shop in the morning so not much chance of a midnight celebration for me.

Happy New Year Abbey xxx

[abbeylee90]

I've messaged her and said taxi to expensive to go hers she only asked last night. What I don't she realises I don't live near her buses stop early and it will be dark

[abbeylee90]

So I told her she said can't I go out when I suggested next Friday and still said she wanted to go tonight

 

[divegirl]

Then tell her she can come out with you and your parents :) 

Tell her you have made arrangements for tonight and can't change them now but that she is welcome to join you if she is at a loose end.

[abbeylee90]

She won't come all the way to mine 

[divegirl]

And you can't afford to go to her so it will have to be on another night when you can get a bus

[abbeylee90]

I said I get paid next Friday and she only asked last night 

[divegirl]

Just leave her be now, you've offered to go out next Friday.

Just concentrate on today.  Are you going to meet the lad you mentioned?

[Just off to walk the dog so may not answer straight away :) ]

[newmodarmy]

abbey, you ask hundreds of questions about the daily dilemmas you have and get a lot of advice. Have you ever considered helping anyone else on here by replying to their questions?