I don't know....

[BeaverDiva]

husband doesn't seem happy at the moment, and i don't really know what to do. I feel like we're not close anymore, and just keep getting on at eachother all the time - the little things that we both do annoy the hell out of one another. I hate it. I adore my husband and our son - I love him to bits, I really do. But it feels like things are slipping away.

feels like he's only happy when he's going out and then he comes back drunk - which annoys me, especially if he's later than he said he would be. seems really unfair that i'm stuck at home when he's out too.

we did used to go out all the time before we had the baby (he's nearly 2 now) so i know he's always liked a busy social life (as i did too), but we can't do that now - but it seems lately that he's going out more and more often, whereas i'm not. so then i'm all on a downer when he's been out because i'm either upset he went and didn't care that i was home and bored, or he came back later and more drunk than was necessary.......

It doesn't help that the last couple of times we've been out together its been rubbish.....we argued the time before, and then this time went to the local (his idea) and it was dead. So now i've got it in my head that he only enjoys going out without me.......
Please help me fix this??

[joeluke]

Sounds like its time to call it a day

[ummmm]

Joe...read the same thread in R&D