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Anyone Had A Ipsos Mori Interviewer At There Door?
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My elderly mother who has had a stroke had a Ipsos Mori interviewer thumping at her door, ringing her doorbell and rattling her letterbox for five minutes at lunch-time today, she does not answer her door to people she does not know, so she did not answer, she has a video viewer so she can see who is at the door. He slipped a letter through the door saying he was from Ipsos Mori.
Then about an hour ago he came back again and was thumping on the door, ringing the doorbell, and rattling the letterbox again but this time started thumping on the living room window and scared my mother, he was there another five minutes before he went away. What I want to know is how these people are allowed to come to the doors of elderly people and scare them like this, if she was going to answer the door to him she would have within the five minutes, I am just hoping they don't call again and if they do I am there as they will get a mouth full.
I have complained to Ipsos Mori but have yet to hear back from them.
Then about an hour ago he came back again and was thumping on the door, ringing the doorbell, and rattling the letterbox again but this time started thumping on the living room window and scared my mother, he was there another five minutes before he went away. What I want to know is how these people are allowed to come to the doors of elderly people and scare them like this, if she was going to answer the door to him she would have within the five minutes, I am just hoping they don't call again and if they do I am there as they will get a mouth full.
I have complained to Ipsos Mori but have yet to hear back from them.
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That's good advice pasta
I think most older people have empathy with the fact that life goes on around them regardless of any mobility or confidence issues they might have and have enough common sense not to cause a fuss because someone has knocked on their door and - shock horror - knocked on their window
That's good advice pasta
I think most older people have empathy with the fact that life goes on around them regardless of any mobility or confidence issues they might have and have enough common sense not to cause a fuss because someone has knocked on their door and - shock horror - knocked on their window
Well ZEUHL aren't you lucky to have a locked gate and long driveway and my mother knows the difference between a knock and a thump.
Also her stroke leaves her very tired and her speech is a bit slurred.
Old people are being told all the time not to answer the door to strangers, my mother is 82 and should not have to put up with people making all this noise to get her to answer.
Also her stroke leaves her very tired and her speech is a bit slurred.
Old people are being told all the time not to answer the door to strangers, my mother is 82 and should not have to put up with people making all this noise to get her to answer.
Last time my mother opened her door to unexpected visitors, they said they were from the waterboard, and while one got her to show him a drain in the back yard, the other stole her purse and a sizeable amount of money Fortunately she didn't catch on until they left (quickly) or she might have been hurt.
If elderly people are not safe to open the door then they shouldn't do so.
It's their prerogative not to and I wouldn't blame them for it especially if there are instances of crime in the area.
Just ignore callers - it's your choice
but please also accept that when those callers are people engaged in a normal, lawful activity they are entitled to knock on the door and ask to talk to you. Just as you are entitled to refuse to do so.
After all, I noticed nothing in the OP to suggest that the caller persisted after being turned away.
It's their prerogative not to and I wouldn't blame them for it especially if there are instances of crime in the area.
Just ignore callers - it's your choice
but please also accept that when those callers are people engaged in a normal, lawful activity they are entitled to knock on the door and ask to talk to you. Just as you are entitled to refuse to do so.
After all, I noticed nothing in the OP to suggest that the caller persisted after being turned away.
Got a reply from the company apologizing and saying that they had spoken to the interviewer and he will not call at my mother's home again. They said that they are not trained to behave this way but I suppose he was on a commission for everyone he got to answer the survey, but I think he went a bit over the top.
Thanks every for your replies, glad I am not the only one that thought this was wrong, of course Zeuhl did not agree, think he must have shares in Mori to go with his locked gate and long driveway.
Thanks every for your replies, glad I am not the only one that thought this was wrong, of course Zeuhl did not agree, think he must have shares in Mori to go with his locked gate and long driveway.
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No but I am a Director of one of the larger independent research companies in the UK so I suppose I do have a vested interest. We don't use door to door or street techniques but have been involved in training and managing such teams and it's like anything that involves human beings; it's a difficult job sometimes and sometimes staff misread a situation or don't handle it as well as we'd like.
I'm glad you received a professional response from I-M, I would have expected as much. I hope their systems live up to their promises.
There was a constructive aspect to my comments yesterday. Knocks (thumps even) on the door are a part of normal life. It's great your mum still lives independently and it might be good if you can help her relax a bit more and accept the idea that people might call and she will ignore them and that's all fine. Easier said than done I know when people are startling her by knocking on the window! I'm sure the agent meant no harm/
Trust you and mum have a peaceful week or two!
No but I am a Director of one of the larger independent research companies in the UK so I suppose I do have a vested interest. We don't use door to door or street techniques but have been involved in training and managing such teams and it's like anything that involves human beings; it's a difficult job sometimes and sometimes staff misread a situation or don't handle it as well as we'd like.
I'm glad you received a professional response from I-M, I would have expected as much. I hope their systems live up to their promises.
There was a constructive aspect to my comments yesterday. Knocks (thumps even) on the door are a part of normal life. It's great your mum still lives independently and it might be good if you can help her relax a bit more and accept the idea that people might call and she will ignore them and that's all fine. Easier said than done I know when people are startling her by knocking on the window! I'm sure the agent meant no harm/
Trust you and mum have a peaceful week or two!
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