A Tribute To Francisco Sa [Chief Stout]

[Dee Sa]

I would like to thank each and every A/B'er for their kind wishes and thoughts, it is a comfort believe me.
we have always been stout, our wedding invites[26years ago] read "Wed a Stout" and he was the Chief.
CS had diabetes for 30years and this lead to total blindness about 10 years ago, we travelled to Texas &Russia to try and save his sight and he had several complicated eye ops here but to no avail. This year he went into phase4 of kidney disease and was about to commence dialysis, he had sleep apnoea and used the pap machine at night and then both legs broke out in ulcers and the district nurse had to come, about two weeks ago we were at 3 different hospitals as outpatients in one week + the podiatry clinic , then we lost Taz which really affected him, it all got too much for poor old CS and the week he died he couldn't walk anymore it took 4 ambulance crew to get him downstairs into the ambulance to A&E but there wasn't a day went by with this quiet dignified man did not tell me he loved me and how grateful he was for me looking after him. RIP Chief Stout.
To make matter worse they cannot agree on cause of death so now we have to have an autopsy and the coroner will issue a death cert, but this wont happen until the beg of next week. CS was only 58 years old.
Thank you for reading this its my way of coping.

[ttfn]

Bless you xxx

[B00]

oh Dee, how awful for you.

Our thoughts really are with you, and we're here if you ever need an ear, albeit cyberly.

Boo
xxx

[albaqwerty]

Dee, lovely to see you on here.
So sorry about the autopsy. More distress heaped on an already distressing time isn't fair.

We're here at anytime for you xxxx

[LochNessMonster]

So sorry for you loss Dee, may the good lord comfort you and your family over the coming days.

Nessie xxxx

Inverness Scotland

[DTCwordfan]

my deep sympathy, Dee...and now this. You are in my thoughts.

[chelle7272]

A lovely tribute. Xx

[00Lisa00]

My thoughts are with you........

[ummmm]

Dee, that is so sad. You're a brave and strong woman xx

[Brenden]

My sympathies are with you Dee, I do know how you feel as my darling husband, soul mate the centre of my universe passed away four weeks ago. Take one day at a time, and do what you feel like doing God bless you. xx

[ummmm]

Brenden, sorry for your loss too xx

[tonyav]

A lovely tribute to your lovely husband Dee, many condolences.

[emmie]

gosh i am so sorry... i know what is it to lose someone you love, young too,
this is with my sincere condolences
em

[abstibus]

Dee
You were truly blessed to have each other.

[tonyav]

Also sorry for your loss to Brenden, condolences.

[emmie]

Brenden, so very sorry to hear that.

[Iluvspikey]

I'm so sorry that you are being put through the extra trauma of an autopsy.Take comfort in the fact that he isn't suffring anymore, and in your happy memories and the love you had for each other. Draw your strength from that. xx

[murraymints]

Dee....there are no words to adequately express how sad I feel for you...xxx

[murraymints]

Brendan ....sorry for your loss..take care xx

[Maydup]

Be strong Dee and try to celebrate the good times. Thinking of you today.

[daisya]

Dee I'm so sorry to read your devastating news, I do hope you find comfort in the coming weeks ahead and the good memories you have will help you through this very sad time. xx