okay wot the hell...

[lilteddybear]

okay i am 15 i have been going out with my boyfriend for the past 5 n half years he is in his first year of college and is 17 and my mam says he wants her permision to marry me wen i turn 16/17/18 wot do i do????????

[mrs_overall]

Say no

[redcrx]

dont do it. youll both change a lot over the next few years. wait and see if you still want to marry at 20

[robotics]

why do you want to get married so young?

Anyway its polite and respectful for the male to ask your parents permission before he asks you

[Diz]

What do you want to do?

Ask yourself if you love him and if you want to spend the rest of your life with him. Where do you see your relationship in another five years, if you can't imagine your life without him then marry him.

On the other hand if your not ready or don't want to get married just say so you should never feel pressured into making a big decision like this.

I am getting married in a few months but I know (hope) that me and my partner will be still together when were old and grey and I cannot wait to be his wife.

Do whatever makes you happy.

[Lil O'lady]

Parental consent is needed for 16-18 year-olds to marry, in England.

[Le Chat]

So you've been 'going out with him' since you were 10? How bizarre is that!!
Wait until your both over 25, asyou change and grow and may not do this in a similar way.
I also think you should spend your time at school improving on your spelling and grammar, not thinking about possible nuptials!

[pastafreak]

Sorry,hun-but you are way too young to even be thinking about marriage.......You are at an age where you should be thinking about your education and having fun, going out with groups of friends...NOT with one boy. Marriage is a major responsibility.....will you and he be ready to pay rent,utilities,council tax,....WITHOUT being on benefit??? Will you both be able to stay true to each other......when your hormones are doing what is natural in the young, and every fit guy -or girl-is so very tempting? And,finally-what happens if you get pregnant??? The fun is definately over then!

[meltoadhall]

dont do it, a boyfriend at age 10 till 15, you are still classed as a child in the eyes of the law, life may change a lot for your boyfriend because he is at college will he be able to support you if you marry, where will you live, rent, buy etc..

will you have the same chance to go to college and get further qualifications or will you have to get a job stacking shelves in tesco because you have to pay the bills?

by all means stay boyfriend/girlfriend but wait until you have had the chance to go to college and choose what you want to do with your life.

the fact that you are asking for advice does show that you are not convinced about the whole idea anyway.

[lilteddybear]

well i am a straight a student and i have dislexia i am in all the top class and get help with spelling and other stuff lyk that.
i have already been accepted to college soly based on my results so far.
i havent thourght about marriage yet he has.
i wuld preffer to get my qualifacations in health and social care first (at college).
an i am not stupid enough to get pregnant we havent slept together yet.
hes the lad that every girl wishes for and i have him.
we love each other but i don't want to get married yet its okay that he lives with me and my mam n dad as my mam knows nothing will happen.
he is a straight a student aswell and have know each other since i was 5 and he was 6.

[lilteddybear]

i turn 16 tomorrow ohhhhhh noooooo

[Whoever]

You say "No". Honestly, you are far, far too young to think about marriage and tying yourself down. Over the next few years both you and your boyfriend will change and broaden your horizons a great deal and what might an attractive idea now will seem a completely different proposition in a couple of years' time. Your boyfriend is being completeljy unrealistic. He is nowhere near the situation where he can afford to support you and you still have a lot more education to complete. Enjoy his company by all means but don't even think of settling down for years yet. Your feelings may be completely different by the time you've finished your education.

[lilteddybear]

2 days after my 16th bday he asked me n i sed no n i asked him if we could have a brake he agreed and havent been together for a few days no im okay with it but he isn't he doesnt stop txtin me sayin he misses me i think i am better off with out him for a while