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how can I get rid of my mother in law???
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I have an annoying interffering mother in law whos got me at the end of my tether, My hubby is not prepared to move out but she's making my life hell. What can I do???
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If you moved out, would your mother in law really not speak to you again, or do you think it's just a threat she makes to control the situation?
You probably do need to move out, but obviously your husband needs to be supportive. Family is important, but so is your marriage and happiness. It sounds like a very difficult situation.
If you moved out, would your mother in law really not speak to you again, or do you think it's just a threat she makes to control the situation?
You probably do need to move out, but obviously your husband needs to be supportive. Family is important, but so is your marriage and happiness. It sounds like a very difficult situation.
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He understands where im comin from and I think deep down he wants to go aswell but he'd rather leave on friendly terms than to take the 1st step. He can never hear a word against me and always backs me up when i'm right which seems to ignite the fire.
Also its financially a big step its so hard gettin onto the property market these days which I think scares him the most
Also its financially a big step its so hard gettin onto the property market these days which I think scares him the most
Well eventually you will need your own place for your own family, if you don't already have one. I would have said now was a good a time as any. It is a big financial committment, but you'll probably need to do it at some point.
If not, maybe you can start researching housing associations for rental or shared ownership. But I would say, from what you say, the only solution is to make a break from her.
If not, maybe you can start researching housing associations for rental or shared ownership. But I would say, from what you say, the only solution is to make a break from her.