Sooz, Life is far too short , if she is a horrid person well it won't matter a jot whether she is flesh and blood or not move on with your life , threats of writing you out of the will etc etc etc its all poppycock , just move on ,
yet another case of religion causing problems , going to a place of worship whether a church, mosque or hall , it will not make you a good person , kindness comes from the heart and if you are bitter and twisted then thats the way she is , move on with your life .........