Can i get any more responses?...

[bluebreezz]

this guy who is about 42...(i m in my 20's); why does he try to ignore me at all cost all of a sudden? granted, he is married and is just an aquaintance. i never gave him any idea i was interested in his friendship, but he use to chat with me and always pleasant and kind. now a days for past few months, he ignores me. he does not ask me to help with any project our group is having or try to involve me in anything. when i see him and he sees me at far distance, he pretends i m not there. i m also great friends with his wife. she talks with me and we get along great. whenever his wife as me to do anything that would benefit the both of them, he does not even say thank you or acknowledge it. he pretends i m not even there. only in desparate situations, he calls me to help with something. anyway, he is all buddy buddy with this other friend (who is also female abt 35 - i m also very close friend with this female)...he talks to her more since me and this female has become friends. then when me and her are standing and laughing he comes and interrupts our conversation talking only to her and not say a word to me, then leaves. he passes me by and says nothing. this is so weird bcuz he use to find ways to get me to notice him (as friend, make jokes, etc.) what is going on?..possibly?

Yesterday, when i was talking to the other female (35) , he called he to talk with her before i could chat with her...then he was shaking her hand a long time..and chatting to her, so i left, bcuz i could not wait longer to chat with her. He also is friends with everyone else..does not really speak with me..very stand-offish.

please do not misunderstand my position..i m not trying to take anything from anyone involved..we were all friends..just wanted to get opinions on the matter.

[redcrx]

doubt youll get any more than you already have.
You could ask him, he is the only one who can give you the true answer
If hes not interested in a friendship then move on. You cant make him change his mind.

[China Doll]

I don't understand the problem. You never gave him any idea you wanted friendship so why should he be friendly? I also think you're looking in to it too much and suspect your feelings to be non-platonic as I can't imagine putting this much thought in to someone you don't care about. I wouldn't want to be friends with someone who ignored me and was rude so therefore, it wouldn't play on my mind.

[ann_h]

Maybe his wife is suspicious of you although she is friendly to you - and he is deliberately avoiding you to reassure her?