End of my tether!

[swan_purple]

This may come across as cold but I've just had enough with two of my supposedly 'best friends' I just don't feel close to them anymore and I find even a call from them just too much. One of them has done me wrong in the past, the other one hasn't done anything wrong but they just come as a two! I just feel like we have grown apart, and that we should just drift away but its not happening as they still thnk I am close to them. Its causing me so much anxiety over what to do as its not like they have done anythng wrong. They are good people, I just don't feel part of them anymore.

Sorry if this comes across badly. I'm just at the end of my tether with it all.

Thank you for any advice.

Sorry for the rant.

xoxo.

[baza]

go ahead, vent your spleen, and you feel much better.

[cathfromsaron]

see them less regularly and meet new people!

life is too short to feel like this, and afterall they have each other!

[China Doll]

Well don't call or stay in touch with them then, I'm sure they'll get the message and it'll free you up to make new friends. No point in long drawn out discussions about the state of your friendship if your mind is already made up.

[HowardKennitby]

^

I agree with CD. If you NEVER make first contact with them, and find new people to be with, they will eventually get the idea.
If they don't you will have to explain it to them.

[swan_purple]

Thanks guys. I have reduced contact and it seems to have worked a lot faster than I thought it would. It has relieved great stress from my mind. They haven't texted me in over a week now, which is really quite shocking!

Thanks for the replies.

xoxo.