Recently My Ex Has Snook Into My House With His Bit Of Fun

[crazygirly]

Hi all

Further to the explanation of my situation which I filed in the law section, I now have the dilema of my very recent become my ex now upstairs with his new bit. Can anyone come back to me quite quickly with ideas on what to do please.

Many thanks all

[Cloverjo]

I'm afraid you have to get on with your life as best as you can. You will be upset for a while, of course. I'm sorry i don't know the details you put in your other post, but perhaps you could find somewhere else to live, but whatever you do don't hang around him hoping he'll change his mind. Just get on and look as if you're ok. You will be eventually.

[crazygirly]

Thanks the answer but this is MY house. i have a 7 month old child in the house to which my ex is not to be in my house or near our son.

[cassa333]

Please explain:

1 who owns the house? If rented who is on the tenancy agreement?

2 Were you married?

3 is he the father of your child?

4 please explain by snook in? Does this mean he no longer lives in the house and just came in unanounced or that he snook the woman in while you weren't looking?

[cassa333]

sorry missed this one:

5 what do you mean by.. ex is not to be in my house with our son.

(which answers no: 3 lol

[CokeTulip]

I thought this guy had been given the boot cgirl? (or this was the advice given before due to the extent!! he was messing you about).

I dont understand, if its your house and he's an ex - how on earth is he now using the house to entertain other women...?
this is rediculous and I would have thought totally within your control to sort -change locks etc etc. Cant add anything else.

[CheekyChops]

If it is your house then he has no right to be there. Change the locks ASAP, it doesn't cost very much.

[mrs_overall]

He is upstairs with another woman?
A bucket of cold water should do the trick

[cassa333]

I've just read your other thread and quite frankly I'm shocked.

Not at what he is doing, he will do whatever he thinks he can get away with. I am shocked at you.


Why on Earth haven't you changed the locks?

Why, if you know he is bringing his girlfriend round when you are out, do you allow him access to the house?

Is your house owned by you or rented?

If rented then when the tenancy is coming to an end give notice and move closer to your own family.

If you own it and your ex has no charge on it lock him out (do that anyway).

Other than perhaps needing help with your son there is no reason why you should be putting up with this. Only you can change this situation and if you don't do it you will have far less to complain about.

If your ex wants to see your son it could perhaps be at his parents house or at his own. It could be that he is meeting this woman at your house because it is convenient for them... Don't make it convenient.

Come on you know what you should be doing so get on and do it.

[lozzer50]

have your locks changed

[2sp_]

What a nerve he has!!

Do as suggested by others, change the locks.

What kind of person is this other woman when she will come into her new boyfriend's ex's house to have sex??

You are well shot of him.