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Help i need advise!
im 23 she is 21, she had a bad birth and almost died, She said that she wanted nothing to do with me straight away but changed her mind just after christmas. She came around with some pictures to show me and we chated and sorted a time for me to see her, a couple of days before i tried to get hold of her to to see what time she was going as i needed a lift and no way of getting there. Now she wont even answer my calls or reply to any messages
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Alex, is it possible that you can talk to her parents (or even close friends?) and ask them to help you to get in contact? Assure them that your intentions are for the best possible reasons and that you would like to be helpful to your ex girlfirend and a good parent to your baby? Sometimes this can be difficult if there is any history of bad feeling between you and her parents but also sometimes they can be very sympathetic too. My son had problems like this with his ex girlfriend, but unfortunately her mother wouldn't help. Sadly his baby died and he never got more than a photo.
Try to ensure everyone of your best intentions, and try not to be too pushy or desperate sounding even if you feel that way. A softly softly approach is the advice I would give you. I wish I could help more on this, as I say, I know what my son went thru. Don't give up.