With your daughter at over 2 years old, Gina's book may be used for reference but not to be taken too seriously. I bought the baby book when my son was born and had it not been for the fact that I already had a son, so I 'knew how it went' I would have ended up demented!! Without going into too much detail, I think maybe you can 'pick the bones' out of it but let commonsense prevail. A great, up beat, practical and 'normal' book is called Toddler Taming by Christopher.Green. I do recommend this book very highly.