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Hi I'm having trouble getting my 4 year old son to leave me when i take him to school. Everyday the teacher has to drag him of mine or his dads legs. He really likes school but just doesn't like us leaving him. Me & my husband have started a star chart & told him when he's not clingy he will get a sticker to put in it & when its full he will get a treat for being a big boy. But he's not interested. Today he told me he doesn't want a sticker or a treat. What can i do to ease him away from me in the mornings? He's been in day care since the age of 15 months so it's not new to him.
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Yeah that makes sense to me too Lady p gold. He feels at the moment as though he has no control over what's happening to him, that is he'd like you to stay, or not have to go, and that's making him desperate and clingy.
He needs to be empowered and see himself as stronger and able to make choices.It has to be his choice to go to school without fuss. You might, if you take Lady p gold's advice and get a pet, keep a pet diary with him and tell him part of owning a pet for him is to draw pics of it and write about it and take the diary in for his teacher to see every day. Get her on board too obviously, and with luck he'll be so excited to show her what he's done in his diary he'll forget to be worried or clingy.Good Luck:)