my nabors kids

[freedom101]

my nabors kids always come over hear and come right in the house they dance around and have even jumped on me allot they ask such embarrassing questions I don't know how to answer them, they ask about sex and touch and ask what things are what do I do?

[crystalclear]

have a word with the parents. you don't mention if you have kids yourself. if this is the case then this maybe the reason the neighbour's kids come over. if not then like l said have a word with the parents.

[freedom101]

no i dont have any myself im not good with kids

[freedom101]

i have talkedto them several times and the dont do anything i dont like to getmad at people

[crystalclear]

The next best thing is to stop the kids from comming to your house

[freedom101]

but i kant be mean and they are nice i just dont know what to do

[teag1rl]

Please be careful, you say they seem like nice kids, but you could be leaving yourself wide open to some dodgy claims from them. If they are there without another adult they really could say anything happened couldn't they?

[mandele-lcc]

woah dude.

lock your door!!! simple

[freedom101]

i see what you mean by the things they can say. i better be carefull because they do things that if they said i did it to them i could be in alot of trouble.

[Whickerman]

They're doing it to wind you up - it's obviously upsetting you. Call round and have a chat to their mum - explain that you like them, and are happy to see them, but they sometimes use objectionable or inappropriate language when you're around, and you wouldn't dream of scolding them as they're not your kids. Then ask her if she would ask them to tone it down just a bit.

Say all that with a friendly tone - don't let her see you're upset, as it's just kids mucking about and you probably don't want her to overreact. That way you'll all stay on good terms. Good luck!

[freedom101]

thank you i will try that, they are nice kids , the little one even is always saying she wants to marrie me when she grows up so qute. i hope this all works out.

[brawburd]

There is an appropriate context to interactions between adults and children. As an adult you must surely be clear that what you are describing is not appropriate. If you are not sure you should seek guidance from a sensible adult and stop contact with these children, for both your and their protection. Start by preventing the free access they seem to have to your house. And stop making excuses - take control of the situation.