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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Hi, Well you concern is understandable given your own past, but sexual abuse isn't about whether a child sleeps in bed with her father, it's about whether her father is a trustworthy man, which I'm sure he is.
If he is, then it doesn't matter where she sleeps, she'll be perfectly safe and if he isn't then he could sexually abuse her anywhere.
Our children have all slept in bed with my wife and I when they were little as in our opinion it's normal and natural for babies and little ones to do so, it's comforting to them and you get no sleepless nights at all.
I would have been mortified if my wife had said to me "I don't want the kids in bed with you when I'm not there", as that would have thrown a really evil, nasty slur against me. That is the way your ex partner will feel if you approach the subject with him, he'll feel really appalled that someone could think such a thing of him, so you need to decide if you trust him or not. If you do, then leave him to be the ghood Dad he appears to be trying to be and try to relax, I'm sure your daughter is perfectly fine, there's nothing unusual or wrong in having your child sleeping with you, other cultures have this as the norm, it's a fairly new idea that very small kids should sleep alone.
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