am i wrong???

[charliebird]

i have a 7mnth old daughter,her father was released from prison after doing a year long sentence when she was 3mnths old,i went through the pregnancy alone.after 2nhalf months he left us for somebody else and has now ended up back in there, he is looking at a 3/4yr stretch now.i do not want my baby getting confused and he is now demanding that i take her up to visit however i am very reluctant,am i wrong?he has now also applied for parental responsibility which i am unwilling to sighn, is he likely to get it?how can he make responsible choices for her when he cant for himself??!!

[aliya]

hi, i have been in the same situation and today regret letting my kids meet with my ex it leaves them confused and damaged for life dont sign as they will use it to make your life hell and to control you through your child
move on and dont let him ruin it for your duaghter
im still suffering and so are my kids.it will be a challange but you will be happier and so will your daughter.
they never change

[charliebird]

ok thanks for that, i really would just rather move on with my life nowbut due to his controlling ways he is making it increasingly difficult. do you reckon given his circumstances and the lack of time hes had with lily that they will grant him parental responsibilty?

[tiger628]

WILL THEY GIVE HIM RESPONSIBILITY... i would hope not by the sounds of things , lillys father is hardly a good role model for her from a man DONT DO IT PLEASE

[charmed24]

unfortunatly the courts do give out these orders like candy these days to fathers ....but you should go to a solicitor and if they are good they will be able to prove to the court that he is no good as a father or in anyway be responsible for his child.....do not sign anything until you have spoken to a solicitor i know its hard but you must be strong for your child and if you think you can just run away from it you are wrong if you do nothing he will get it and your nightmare will just get worse....best of luck