moving out

[alicefacey]

my daughter is age 14, and we are now living in Hong Kong and have been living there for 2 weeks now. we used to live in the UK. she was very happy there... she loved her school and was working exceptionally well, she was very very happy. the night before we were to get on the flgiht she ran away, some of her friends found her, but then she tried to run away again at the air port. my husband is living still in england and her little sister is boarding. she wants to go back to england and live on her own with a nanny to become her full time guardian whilst me and my husband are out here. the reason we are out here is because of his job. she hates school at the moment and is refusing to work or go to school. if living with a nanny for a couple of years a bad thing to do or is it for the best as she is really worrying me. she has already attempted to run away, i dont know what else to do. we have spoken alot but we always end up going in opposite directions. i want to do the best for her as it is in the middle of her gcse's and we have to decided quickly so that she has to go through as little stres ass possbile. the problem is is that she only wants to go back to her old school as she knows people there and she loves it. boarding is not an option. what should i do? i need help.thanks

[ethanryan]

this is a very difficult situation. i think yes she should be happy but at the same time she is still a child. i was brought up told that there are many things in life we dont like but we have to deal with them, it has only been two weeks so maybe you should give it more time, it takes time for an adukt to adjust to changes never mind a child.
could you not get her some internet access with a web cam so that she can still keep in touch with her old friends.

i wouldnt like been so far away from my child