My 9 year old son thinks my husband and I are having sex

[concenedstep]

My 9 year old son seems to think my husband and I are having sex when we are not. He is in a bad mood and is angry at me for this I dont know how to explain this to him with out him telling me he hates me. This is having a toll on him because he crys and get VERY upset over it. My husband thinks that maybe he is dreaming and wakes up angry at us.... What do I do? Please help!!!!

[andy-hughes]

What makes you think he thinks you are having sex?

Usualy children are older - at puberty - before the notion that sex is something their parents do actually occurs to them.
You need to have a chat with your sone - does ytour name indicate that you or your husband are step-parents? If so, he may just be feeling insecure if he sees you being physically close.

Try and ensure that you offer as much affection as he wants, verbal and physical, to ensure he feels a full and valued member of the family, and hopefully his anger will disipate.

Also, have a chat with his teacher, and make sure there are no issues at schol of which you are unaware.