Daughter

[jana007]

Hiya i was wondering if you would be able to help me. I would like to know if father of my little girl could stop me from leaving UK. I'm from Slovakia and things just don't work between us. So i would like to go back to my country with our little girl. We are not married but his name is on her birth certificate.

[one-big-letdown]

Yes, he can take you to court.

[jana007]

Is there possibility it could go in my favour?

[one-big-letdown]

It would depend on the circumstances.

However, I am 99% sure that "things just don't work out between us" won't be a valid reason.

I hope things work out and hope I've helped. If you need anything else just ask :)

[ummmm]

That would depend on the relationship between father and child. If he sees her on a regular basis and pays maintenance then probably not.

[jana007]

But i wouldn't be getting any csa money if i will move there. Can i do anything about him not stopping me from going? :o(

[ummmm]

How often does he see her?

Have you mentioned the move to him?

[bobjugs12]

For Funks Sake your talking about dragging a mans child to another country and all you care about is whether he can legally stop you.
You're going to stop your man seeing his daughter and your daughter seeing her Dad. How the Foof do you sleep at night!

[jana007]

Oh, so you would reather stay with the man who keeps cheating on you and lie to you to your face and instead of spending time with his child he plays playstation or hes on the laptop. plus he already has got another child in this country but does he makes the effort no. so how can you ask me if i can sleep at night. would you want your child to grow up round man who always swears round him or her and can't be bothered to do anything with her. and hes 26. so do you still think that it's such a great idea to stay there?

[LoftyLottie]

If she is in trouble the first place she would want to go is home back to her family with her child she probably needs some support. Would you suggest she leaves her daughter with her ex. One or other of the parents is going to have to suffer. It might be better for the little girl to be with her mother - it might not. We simply don't known enough about either of the parents or why the relationship failed. Unfortunately, one of the parents might have to suffer for the sake of the little girl.

[one-big-letdown]

I must admit I aggree with bobjugs

[Bbbananas]

Calm down bob - we don't know the circumstances do we?
Whoops - we do now......

[LoftyLottie]

I didn't see your answer jana before I posted my comments. I hope it works out well for you.

[bobjugs12]

Sorry love, but at no point did you mention that stuff. Your initial reason for leaving was "things just don't work between us".

[one-big-letdown]

Ah, didn't see the OP's update post.

Still, it's not much grounds to run away with the kid as far as the law's concerned.

[rowanwitch]

Can you not just move a short distance away for a while and encourage him to maintain contact.... if he doesn't then it might look better if you later apply to take your daughter home... I hope for her sake you can work something out

[jana007]

He is always going to be her dad and im never gonna take that away from her. i wouldn't. i don't get a lot of support from his family. they wont even let her to stay over at their place. and he's got nowhere to live as he is living at my place. i just don't know what to do. and im not happy at all. just want some support and my family. :o(

[jana007]

she will be 3 in september.

[Bbbananas]

Poor little girl :-(