is this normal?

[airplane2819]

I liike this girl but I find shes always flirting with her guy friends Im not sure why she does it, she knows i dont like it and she has hurt me in the past. Sometimes i dont feel safe with her as im not sure what shes goin to do next
she says she likes me but i find it hard to beleive someties
What should i do?

[Essentially]

Think of owning a car and borrowing one; if you own it, then it's yours to enjoy ... if you borrow it then, at some point, you have to take it back It isn't yours, in short.

Liking a girl/lady is a lot different from being in love. She has the right to flirt if there is no real bond between you guys; from what I see there isn't. She says she likes you, but consider she could like a few others besides you.

From what you say you are amongst others that she would say she likes ... she doesn't actually belong to you and only you. My take would be that you chill-out and not let it bother you. If she wants to make what you have a relationship, rather than a friendship, then things would be different.

As it stands? Again, and from what you say, she is simply a friend ... no matter how good a friend she may say she is. She isn't commited to you in any way.

Good luck

~Frankie~

[China Doll]

Trust her. Some of us have flirty characters but it doesn't mean we'll do anything.

If you don't trust her you have nothing anyway.

Harsh but true.

[airplane2819]

Thanks for your replies ... I trust her but ill have to wait and see what happens next, some of her freinds seem to be getting in the way and making things worse for us but im hoping shell se through them for what they are

[Dassie]

It's normal for some girls - either they like the attention as it gives them a boost mainly because deep down they are insecure.