Why is he been like this.....

[blondie123]

I've recently got with a wonderful man. We get on really well and everything is great. We spend nearly every night together. Before we got together he used to spend all his free time with his friend! I get on really well with his friend, which is good! but last night my boyfriend and i went to see his friend (who he hasnt seen since saturday) and my boyfriend was up his a**e and just acted like i wasnt there and wasnt part of his life most of the night! i dont want to try and come between him and his friend but for the last week i have said they should see more of each other and my boyfriend said he prefered spending time with me and has just moaned about him and slagged him off, and saying that he wants to spend his future with me, move in together etc but last night he just talked like i didnt exist and wasnt part of his life! my boyfriend started making out that i had been slaggin his friend off! i just dont understand why he is been like this?
I thought he might be jealous of the relationship i have formed with his friend, as we get on really well but there is nothing sexual its more like a sister / brother relationship.
Do you think i am been unreasonable?

[4getmenot]

I think you spend too much time togather, every night isnt healthy, suggest that he has nights out with his mate without you there and get some space.

[kate1976]

Totally agree with 4get, I couldn't spend every night with a fella, it'd drive me mad, unless of course it was a naked Orlando Bloom, Jensen Ackles or any of my other hot fantasy males!!!

Go out with your own friends, have space from each other or else you may end up resenting each other! Be independent and let him have his independence too, it won't mean that you don't love each other less!

As for how he acted with his friend, it maybe jealousy it may not be, it may be just how he and his friend are, I know a few men who like to put on a 'show' when with friends! Don't worry too much about it!

Good luck!

Apologies if this post doesn't make sense, I'm very very tired and my brain seems to have gone on holiday!!

[REDHEAD24]

this is the thing a lot of cuples do make one person your god , ur be all and end all , instead i think u should meet with ur mates ( it sounds like u dont see them and have some space)

he is a man - they are like this sadly

[cazzz1975]

I would imagine he was "up his @rse" because underneath it he probably felt bad that he had not spent time with his friend.

the key here is sharing time, to keep everyone happy you both need to allocate days for mates regularily otherwise you will both be friendless!

cut him some slack, his friend probably felt a bit out in the cold when you came along and began taking 100% of his friends time...

[blondie123]

Thanks for all your answers...took your advice and went out with my mates last night and he went out with his! feel better for it! will just have to make it more of a regular thing.

Cheers