pregnant

[lilminxlou]

i really want to be pregnant? how amazing is it to have a little life inside of you?

[lilminxlou]

its like theres 2 sides, the side that wants things i.e to be pregnant and then the realistic side kicks in like times not right, go to uni first etc etc i didnt realise how harsh these ppl were gonna b

[pingu97]

I guess that's what this site is about- people opinions, i hope you dont think i was preaching to you before just trying to give some friendly advice & share my experiences, but i know exactly what you mean about there being 2 sides to you i was the same but chose to go with the irrational side & thankfully it's worked out for me, but i have a friend who had her first child (on purpose) at 15 and is now 21 with 3 kids under 7, she always said she was going to train to be a midwife after her first, now she's on her own, no job & no life, i think it helped me that my hubby is 6 years older than me so he was ready for it all & really helped me through the hard times he kept a straight head for us both!

[lilminxlou]

pingu no i dont feel you were preaching at all, it was true what u were saying, i just was curious as to what its like and stuff so thanks x

[cazzz1975]

well as amazing as pregnancy is, its not a bowl of cherries for the mom to be :D

[melthemum]

There is nothing wrong with wanting a baby, its maternal instinct.. But I'm pregnant with my second child now and it is even worse then before. Pregnancy sucks! Giving birth is horrible! Being pregnant was/is the worst time in my life, you don't have your BODY to yourself. But saying that when you see your baby you forget everything and you really don't care about the pain, the tiredness, you heaving fat body.. And its soon over and all back to normal.... until you get pregnant again!

[redcrx]

apologies if you thought some answers were harsh without reason.

Please read your original question again and perhaps you will see the question as we read it.

[mountainboo]

I'm sorry if you thought I was being judgemental and you are right, I did no know the reasons associated to giving your dog away so again I appologise. I didn't realise that you were speaking hypothetically when you post your question but it's become clear throughout the post that your only being inquisitive.

[lilminxlou]

i accept your apologies, i just wish that you had understood thereason about the whole og thing, its not s if i dont care, i have rung up every day asking about him, and they had to peel my fingers of his lead. i admit the statement could have been worded better but im a bit of a dippy person when it comes to explaining things in the whole lol.

[pingu97]

Just gotta dissagree with melthemum, i absolutley adored my pregnancy it was the best time of my life (apartfrom when she was born of course), i honestly enjoyed every minute of it despite the sickness & painful piles! i would do it all again tommorrow! I admittedly cant comment on giving birth as i had an elective c-section and it was wonderful!

[lilminxlou]

lol yeah i want to know what its like 2 be pregnant, i just dont think im ready to have it come out at the end of it lol