Confused & trying not to get my hopes up!

[LuBlu]

I posted on here last month with a similar dilemma, problem is, it seems to be recurring!
Last month, after being a week late starting my period I did a test, negative. The next day I started, but only a light period & it only lasted for about 2 days (at least half my normal time), still not convinced I did another test a week after the first one. Still negative. Not this month I thought!

I'm now awaiting my January period and it's 3-4 days late (going on the dates from last month). All 'normal' symptoms that I get every month have yet again not appeared this month, like last. So, no choc cravings, infact, don't fancy it at all (REALLY not like me - there's loads sat in the kitchen from Xmas!!) and no irritability.

I want to test now, but hubby wants to wait til at least the beginning of next week - aarrgghh!!

Not really sure what to think or do. I'm now wondering whether I was pregnant last month after all?
I don't have anyone I can talk to about this, so thought I'd post here for some friendly words and advice!
Thank you for reading me going on!

[redcrx]

are you 3 or 4 days late working it from the late date last time or your original cycle?

Id test now and again at weekend if no sign of period if i was you.

[LuBlu]

Thanks Redcrx. I'm working from the late date from last month. Not my original cycle.

[mountainboo]

Hi Lublu, I've been where you are, it's frustrating all the waiting isn't it? When did you come off the pill or when did you stop using contraception, because when I stopped using the pill it took a good few months before my periods were normal. I was as regular as clockwork on the pill and then completely all over the place when I stopped and I wasn't particularly heavy each month either. When I did become pregnant the only symptoms I had at the very beginning was extreme fatigue and sore breasts.
I take it you are trying? If so, work out your most fertile time, which is usually around 14 days after your period.
I'll keep my fingers for this month for you.