aw poor you i know exactly how you feel, but it will happen soon! sounds like your trying everything, do you have an exercise ball? good for helping pushh things down, you just sit on it and bounce a little. i was 8 days over with both mine. the only other thing is castor oil but really is awful, not recommended by midwifes so if you do try it dont tell them! my sis took some in the evening a wk before she was due and by 11.30am the next day my gorgeous neice was born. also the sex thing only really works properly if you actually absorb the semen orally, urrgghh is all i can say but hey thats what the midwife said! hope it happens soon for you, do you know what your having?