Gonna be Quite a strange week

[4getmenot]

I am sat here waiting for news about not 1 but 3 babies who were all due last week. One of my closest mates is in hospital as I type. On the other hand the mate I was talking about last week I think may have lost her baby. I dont know if I should tell her the good news when my friend gives birth or not.

[ummmm]

I would because she's going to find out anyway. Best it comes from a sympathetic person.

[4getmenot]

also she hasnt told me yet. Her sister had told me she doesnt think she is pregnant anymore as she is bleeding lots. I know she has a scan this week and is maybe waiting till that before she says. So she doesnt know I know so I could tell her.

[ummmm]

Has she got other kids?

[4getmenot]

Neither the ones having baby ot one losing has no

[ummmm]

She might be upset but most women would still be happy that a friend has given birth to a healthy baby. Although it might make her sad.

[4getmenot]

I think she would still be quite happy for her knowing the kind of person she is. Its just so strange she's losing hers whilst my mate is giving birth. You never know she might not have lost it

[ummmm]

Hopefully not.

[yogi-bear]

Hi 4get

I'd tell her if she asks, as still fresh, raw and in your friends mind, if she has sadly miscarried.
Sorry to hear this, my lovely, if that be the case.

yogi x

[4getmenot]

I think I should tell her even if she doesnt ask as she knows I would tell her straight away and she'd know I was keeping it from her. Some people bleed through pregnancy but its not looking good

[yogi-bear]

Do what you thinks best, 4get and i do hope she's ok, but as you mentioned earlier in thread, she's bleeding lots, which is not a particularly good sign.

yogi x

[4getmenot]

she has lost the baby :-(