Bednobs update - don't know where to put this

[bednobs]

Hi, Our son William was born on 18th May 2011

33 Hours later we made the very difficult decision to turn his ventilator off, to spare him more hurt.
Bednobs x

[NoMercy]

So sorry for your loss. x x

[Jules001]

I don't know what I can say that hasn't already been said, other than my thoughts are with you

[boxtops]

Bednobs has been posting today on other threads, but I hope she realises that we don't know quite what to say to her..... we are all so aware of her sad situation.

[bednobs]

of course i do boxy, i dont know what to say to other peo[ple and they don't know what to say to me; it's just the way of things

[Jan1957]

Bless you bednobs. I'm sure it is too raw for you to talk about so just keep posting elsewhere. We are all thinking of you. xxx

[horseshoes]

How sad this is. My thoughts are with you too. x

[bednobs]

it's not too raw to post, i just dont want to heap my misery on other people. Plus, this isn't a blogging site :)

[boxtops]

Bednobs - we're here for you, we want to hear if you want to talk. If you want to start another thread, or stay on this one, please do. We are just devastated for you - blog away ♥

[karenmac60]

Aw Bednobs - I doubt anyone would think you are heaping your misery on others, we all just want you to be ok and for you to know you can talk if it helps you. I think most of us feel pretty helpless right now, and if we can help by listening and supporting you then that is what we want to do. xxx

[chris1957au]

Hope you take confort in the fact that you made the right choice, my thoughts are with you and your son

[China Doll]

'Plus, this isn't a blogging site'

^^^^ I'm not always entirely convinced by that... ;oP

If it helps you bednobs, you blog and post away. I can't imagine anyone suggesting you do differently. A lot of people have been thinking of you which I think is a gesture of the high regard you're actually held in. If us lot can be of any piddling use, then make use of it.

[venator]

Bednobs, I've been there more than once. There is nothing to say. xx

[andy-hughes]

I am so so sorry.

The raw ceaseless pain that you must endure like breathing.

Nothing said makes any difference - except the empathy and support behind it, and as you know, you have that from all of us, for ever.

Thinking of you always.

A xx

[Bbbananas]

So sorry my love. For you and Mr B.
Very very sad news.

[looby1914]

sending love and hugs xxxxx

[mrs_overall]

My deepest condolences and a big hug xx

[anneasquith]

bednobs. i for one would like to hear how you both are at this truly awful time. and im sure abers would welcome any " things " you wish to discuss.

[icemaiden]

Just come across this post. I'm so sorry Bednobs, such sad news. My thoughts are with you.
xxxxxxx

[merciasounds]

I am so, so sorry for your loss.