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Secret Facebbook Groups...??
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I have just learnt that these groups exist. You can only join these groups by invitation only and will not show up in any search you make. Now as a parent of a 13 yr old girl who regularly goes on and uses this popular networking site surely these groups need to be made open or banned. One of the provisos I made before allowing her to sign up was that I could be added as a friend and monitor and check who she was adding as a friend like any concerned responsible parent would. I'm pretty sure that she hasn't joined one these groups and talking to anyone sinister but now knowing these groups exist, isn't it dangerous that a parent cant view the content and members of such groups if their child is in one??
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Difficult one, there is only so much control you could ever have with that kind of site.
There are all kinds of ways of hiding information (eg stopping certain people from seeing certain information) , you can't control who she chats to via message or messenger etc... or elsewhere on the web. I guess there has to be an element of trust involved (making sure...
18:51 Thu 26th May 2011
Difficult one, there is only so much control you could ever have with that kind of site.
There are all kinds of ways of hiding information (eg stopping certain people from seeing certain information), you can't control who she chats to via message or messenger etc... or elsewhere on the web. I guess there has to be an element of trust involved (making sure they are properly educated as to potential risks,internet safety etc... and knowing they can come to you with anything they are concerned about).
With the availability of the internet these days, it's likely they could easily access it without your knowledge in any event should you try and stop them. Could be easier to keep an eye as much as you can with a willing and informed child who will let you.
There are all kinds of ways of hiding information (eg stopping certain people from seeing certain information), you can't control who she chats to via message or messenger etc... or elsewhere on the web. I guess there has to be an element of trust involved (making sure they are properly educated as to potential risks,internet safety etc... and knowing they can come to you with anything they are concerned about).
With the availability of the internet these days, it's likely they could easily access it without your knowledge in any event should you try and stop them. Could be easier to keep an eye as much as you can with a willing and informed child who will let you.
Are you suggesting that the private/secret groups are unchecked? I don't want to be thought as scaremongering, but could this be a paedos group meeting? a terriorist bombmaking group? A school bully confab? Ok maybe I'm OTT but unsavoury groups given a private thread would be like manna from heaven if left to flourish without being checked over regularly.
The only way you can control this is by having her password or to do spot checks every so often. You only need to view her 'groups' setting to see where she's chatting. Don't forget, you don't need to be a 'friend' on Facebook to send a private message.
Maybe a chat is needed, showing you have every confidence in her to be safe online and know that she can always come to you to deal with any unknown persons who try to add her or send her a message.
Ask at her school, they will have information booklets on how to be safe when using the internet.
Maybe a chat is needed, showing you have every confidence in her to be safe online and know that she can always come to you to deal with any unknown persons who try to add her or send her a message.
Ask at her school, they will have information booklets on how to be safe when using the internet.
so what makes facebook any different to the rest of the web? there are all sorts out there, you need to talk to your daughter about safety on the net.
if you dont think shes capable of knowing who are friends and who should be avoided then you still have those 2 options, remove her access or check her account directly by asking her for her password.
if you dont think shes capable of knowing who are friends and who should be avoided then you still have those 2 options, remove her access or check her account directly by asking her for her password.
My eldest son has a computer in his room with internet access and he has a FB account. He is fully aware of the rules for using it (if we ask, he has to show us stuff, not to give out personal details, etc). He is astute enough to understand that just because someone might say they are a fellow teenager that they might not be. If anything 'strange' comes up he has to tell us about it. I am perfectly comfortable with him using both FB and the Internet.
I do have access to my daughters fb account and I know she isnt a member of a secret group but how many parents out there even knew about them? I just learnt they exist today. My concern is that parent will happily let their kids go on fb checking who their adding and interacting with but not knowing they could be in a "Secret Group" which wont show up in any newsfeeds, searches list of members in them..
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