Should I propose to my girlfriend?

[Nick82]

I've been with my girlfriend since early March but we've known each other since 2008. A couple of weeks ago she found out she is pregnant and is due in March. I want to do right by her and our baby. It's different because we've known each other for a while now, but I don't know whether to propose to her or not?

[Mamyalynne]

Nick only you know the answer to this, ask yourself if you want to commit to stay with her all your live. Can you imagine life without her? If not then go ahead. Don't let the prospect of the baby be the deciding factor, but your love for her and your future together.

Whatever you decide I wish you all a happy future.

Mamya ♥

[Mamyalynne]

^^all your life^^

[MarkRae]

Yes you should.

[Answerprancer]

Why *should* you marry ? There are plenty of other alternatives.
(I smell some sort of spam on the way).

[Mamyalynne]

I always give the answer I would give as if it were a long time user and if it turns sour, then would think differently.

[Answerprancer]

Innocent until proven guilty eh ? :-) Bless you.
Night night ML x

[Mamyalynne]

That is how I am.

[trt]

Do you think she wants to marry you?

[Answerprancer]

...and I'm not so I don't get a "night night" back ? ;-)

[Mamyalynne]

Night night darling , sleep well ♥

[Answerprancer]

:-) x

[sara3]

I can't think of anything worse.. "we're getting married because my fiancé asked a bunch of strangers on the net"!

either you want to marry her or you don't. don't insult her by proposing based on this bizarre online poll.

ridiculous.

[DTCwordfan]

sara - maybe she is an ABer.........

[DTCwordfan]

Molly is pregnant?????!

[sara3]

oh right.. you think this may actually be the proposal?

how romantic!

maybe the Ed can arrange an AB marriage service in "relationships and dating" :o)

[DTCwordfan]

New Judge will no doubt preside....

[RATTER15]

You cannot decide one way or the other just based on the fact that she is pregnant, if she wasn't pregnant would you still be asking this question.

If you marry for the sake of the baby you could end up bringing up this child in a very unhappy environment, that is far worse than bringing up a child with one parent on the scene.

Think long and hard.

[rowanwitch]

set up a proper home, live with her through the pregnancy and a couple of years after...if you still feel you love her then do it You can still tell her you want to commit to her and hope you will always be with her... that way she will know its because you love her and the life you have with her and your new family

[Brinjal]

Do you love her enough to consider spending the rest of your life with her?? You have a responsibility to the child for the rest of your life but you must be sure that marriage is what you really want. Not just "its the right thing to do"