Friend had a fling

[missclaire73]

I just found out my friend had a fling she is married with one child she is 45 years old and when she had this fling she was 43 the lad she had a fling with was 18 years old i am quite disgusted by her and i want to tell her husband.
what do you think i should do?

[Arksided]

I'm with the majority, keep well out of it, lose lips sink Friend ships.

[andy-hughes]

I agree with the majority of posts.

If your friend's actions make her friendship incompatable with yours, fair enough, but to interfere in her marriage is an action that is not yours to take.

It really is nothing to do with you how your friend conducts her relationships, only the impact on your friendeship is your issue, so you can cut her out of your life and either tell her why, or not as you choose, but the rest is off limits.

[missclaire73]

Craft and umm she was not a very nice friend when she opened her mouth to destroying a marriage did it.

[ummmm]

She might have confessed to her husband and they worked through their issues. If that's the case...you will look like one big sugar stirrer.

[tenrec]

miss claire, what sort of friend would you be if you shopped her?

[Baldric]

Friend???
Some friend you are, what's up, jealous because she pulled a toyboy, keep well out of it,
I don't think her husband would thank you either.

[ummmm]

Or her child!!

[DTCwordfan]

I think I will have a torrid[i affair with vodka - and you lot can stay [i] welland truly] out of it.

It's those cakes of hers, and there is something about those shoes in her avatar - what does my goddaughter call her Jimmy's - ahh, I remember "f---me shoes", that's the term.

[jno]

was it your marriage she destroyed? If so I can understand a desire for revenge... but I'd still stay well away from it.

[missclaire73]

Balric it's a question does it say i am going to tell her husband no it dont and as regard being a friend i have been a good friend so you don't know what your going on about.

[DTCwordfan]

well the quotes didn't work there.

missc - you could always get your gf to lend him to you, or perhaps one of his mates......No seriously, stay out or terminate the friendship with her, but nothing to her family.

[EcclesCake]

It has absolutely nothing to do with you. If you don't approve distance yourself from your friend.

[jackthehat]

So you are considering telling her husband all because you want to score points rather than actually having his, or her child's, best interests at heart?

Incidentally, did you end up shopping your drug-taking work-mate?

You do seem to believe that you have an entitlement to act as some sort of moral authority...

[missclaire73]

Jackthehat your talking rubbish.

[ummmm]

This not you then?

http://www.theanswerb...s/Question891443.html

[tenrec]

I think JTH has a valid arguement there.

[katdarn79]

I would never shop a friend!! be it drugs or an affair. What sort of friend would i be if i did that?

[cathfromsaron]

good answer JTH!

it doesn't seem that she actually *wants* our advice afterall!

[Mick-Talbot]

Is it because your friend rebuffed your advances?

[Baldric]

You stated 'you want to tell her husband' and asked 'what do you think I should do?'
I told you.