"and says that i am boring and dull with a sad life and I stand in his way stopping him from doing what he wants to do."
"as I am boring and like a monkey around his neck!"
"He said he did not want to get married to me anyhow and he only did it because his dad wanted us to get marreid and said he only had 5 years to live!"
Harsh hurtful words.........:(
Firstly, I'm so sorry for what you're experiencing from your husband at the moment, seeshat, but what makes him say those things about you?. He obviously has his side too.
It appears that even though you love him dearly, he doesnt think the same way. You can do what you like....talk to his parents......ask him to reconsider....FACT remains he has said these things to you and even if he takes it back, it'll probably come up again at some point in the future.
You gotta be realistic about it......ask for marriage guidance counselling and if he'll go to save what marriage you have........otherwise, and sorry to be brutal, but you are just putting off the inevitable.
I DO hope you sort this out with him and have a great life.....knowone deserves not too, eh?
All the best
Yogi xx