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Biyfriend saying in out of order for going in hoilday with my family is he right ?
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I'm 19 and been with my biyfriend for 2 years we live together. The other day my ban ask if I would go on hoilday with her for 4 days with my family I ask my boyfriend and he was okay at first now my nan has booked ad paid for the hoilday and I have booked the time of work it's only 4 days in England no where great but now he is moanin at me saying I'm out of order that I shouldn't go and saying I shouldn't want to go without . Now I don't really want to go as I feel guilty for leaving him but it is only for 4 days but I have to go as my ban has paid for it but he making it hard for me to want to go . Another reason I'm going is cou my mum moved to Wales a couple of months back and I not seen her in some time and she will hopefully be coming up to meet up . He still saying that if it was him I shoulnt go and that on out of order ... Am I ??
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Good - everyone has the right to go away on their own if they want to or need to, you are not tied to this bloke's leg. It's not as if you are going away for a hen weekend or a crazy week in Ibiza with your mates - you're going to see your nan and your mum.
Get him to make plans to see his own family while you're away - it's a great idea.
Get him to make plans to see his own family while you're away - it's a great idea.
10:48 Sat 14th Jul 2012
No. You go.
He hasn't grown up yet. He'll learn. He doesn't own you. I take it you wouldn't make a fuss if the situation was reversed and he was going away. Your as good as he is.You're being like a doormat if you let him try to tell you, directly or indirectly, not to go. You stand up to him and have a little confidence and self respect ! And if he's going to go on like this, he's going to become dangerously possessive with any woman he's with, and definitely a grown man to avoid. You'll be doing the world a service by teaching him that this not the way to behave.
He hasn't grown up yet. He'll learn. He doesn't own you. I take it you wouldn't make a fuss if the situation was reversed and he was going away. Your as good as he is.You're being like a doormat if you let him try to tell you, directly or indirectly, not to go. You stand up to him and have a little confidence and self respect ! And if he's going to go on like this, he's going to become dangerously possessive with any woman he's with, and definitely a grown man to avoid. You'll be doing the world a service by teaching him that this not the way to behave.
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Well, now...........not a very smart move on the part of your "nan" just inviting you and not your BF..........was she trying to cause trouble?
Hasn't "nan" got friends of her own age to accompany her on holiday?
If "nan" had been smart, she would have invited you both and the BF would have said."Going on holiday with your "nan" not bloody likely and there you would have had your get out.
You have only been together for 2 years so BF is feeling, quite naturally a little insecure.
Would you have minded if BF was invited, NOT you, to go away with HIS "nan.?
I would suggest that you haven't thought this out.
P.S There is absolutely nothing wrong in having a "control freak" as a BF....some women nee them.
Hasn't "nan" got friends of her own age to accompany her on holiday?
If "nan" had been smart, she would have invited you both and the BF would have said."Going on holiday with your "nan" not bloody likely and there you would have had your get out.
You have only been together for 2 years so BF is feeling, quite naturally a little insecure.
Would you have minded if BF was invited, NOT you, to go away with HIS "nan.?
I would suggest that you haven't thought this out.
P.S There is absolutely nothing wrong in having a "control freak" as a BF....some women nee them.
\\\\ I hope that's one of your tongue in cheek posts\\\\
How dare you madam?...............;-)
\\\living together 2 years makes him insecure? - er no, two months yes, two years, no.\\\
Insecurity is no believer in time......how many ABers are on anti depressives,anxiolytic agents after being with their other half for years?
How dare you madam?...............;-)
\\\living together 2 years makes him insecure? - er no, two months yes, two years, no.\\\
Insecurity is no believer in time......how many ABers are on anti depressives,anxiolytic agents after being with their other half for years?
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