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2sp, Sylvia & her son have just popped in to tell me she is having a cremation & the undertaker has agreed to let her 3 sons and 3 Grandsons be pallbearers, when the hearse pulls up in front of the church doors they will take over & carry the coffin to the podium while his fav music will be playing. He explained it to them beautifully, they are very happy.
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