May I Please Have A Moan.........

[Jeza]

Mic has had a bad one, if Mics is bad then mine is worse. I know Mic is not himself. Today I had my hair pulled and been punched in the chest. I rang the surgery asking could they give him something to calm him down. Doc came out to see him. "I told you you should have put him in a nursing home" Thanks Doc for nothing.

[tonyav]

Gawd blimey Jeza, did anything bring this on with Mic ?.

[kvalidir]

So sorry Jeza, did the GP manage to give him anything to help?

[woofgang]

Doctor needs a kicking. If this is unusual it might be the onset of an infection. Keep a close eye.

[Psybbo]

Sorry Jeza

[tamborine]

Aww Jeza you know he doesnt mean it but at least you have given him the strength to hit out. Give him cold tea till he apologises.

[pixie373]

Urine infection?

[Peaspeculiars]

Sorry to hear that Jeza, and yes, the doctor should have kept that opinion to his/ herself and been more practically minded.

[Jeza]

Not that I can think of Tony, before the stroke I cannot think of the last time he was angry with me. Now he is angry most of the time. He is a totally changed man.

[Mamyalynne]

Completely inappropriate response from the Doctor.


Anger often comes from fear and frustration as you know and of course you are the nearest to take the brunt of it, so difficult.

Moan away and have a ((HUG)).

[Jeza]

You all must be able to tell I am a slow one finger typist. The doc said to get a urine sample.

[murraymints]

Jez...he's not himself and really doesn't mean to harm you...does he have a fever/infection...is he taking plenty of fluids ? ...doctor not being helpful...chin up i xx

[paddywak]

Sorry to hear about you day jeza, you know you'll always find a few sympathetic ears on here,so moan as much as you want to we understand.

[tamborine]

Is he angry with the nurses? Can you afford to use agency nurses while you have a break

[DaisyNonna]

Doctor should be ashamed.
Did he/she offer any help?
Unfortunately sometimes this happens with brain trauma. Not your fault and you deserve all the help the medical service can give you.
Your decision was based on love. Wish I could say something more helpful.

[pixie373]

Hopefully, that's what it will be and some antibiotics should get him back to his usual self. Ignore the doctor, he's a saladchef x

[RATTER15]

It sounds like Mic is trying to communicate his utter frustrations at things, maybe something specific, is he trying to tell you something?

Sorry Jeza, I havent really been following the ongoing problems that you have been having with Mic.

[murraymints]

You also must arrange respite care jeza....

[tonyav]

It was a stupid comment from the doc.

[humbersloop]

I'd say that's well worth a moan Jeza, on several levels

[Jeza]

Thanks everyone for your kind words. Mic causes a fuss every time I am out of his sight. Even when the carers are attending him. So a break is out of the question. Mics room is spotless, the rest of the house well.......