having a baby after a ceaserian

[nikkie]

i recently had my baby in my 6th month of pregnancy due to what the doctors called preeclampsia and the baby died unfortunately because she was very small and with a lot of breathing difficulties.Now i have waited for 9months and i am planning to have another baby, is it too early to start planning?

[SteveDerby]

Firstly, very sorry to hear what happened. The loss of a baby is something that no-one should have to suffer.

As to whether it's to early to start planning, there really isn't a set time. It all depends on you and your partner's feelings on the subject. You have to be totally selfish as regards anyone else's feelings (ie friends and family), as at the end of the dayt, you and your partner are the parents-to-be, not anyone else.

The decision has to be made by the two of you alone, but what ever you decide, I wish you all the best in recovering from the sad loss you have suffered.