My Son Called The Police Me . After I Found Out My Wife Was Cheating

[Hordeaz]

I'm looking for answer to my problem

I recently found out my wife was and I don't know if she continued with her affair.

I was extremely jealous of my wife and I'm still am

Went to my family for support that turned out to be worse they said I deserve what she did now keep in mind this is my family my brothers and sisters

Since this happened I did forgive my wife I forgave my son for hitting me un the head

But everywhere I go for help turns out to be worse.

I come here because you don't know and instead of one person hearing me I get everyone's opinion


There is a lot to this story

But I ask you could it be your wife's or husbands fault there one of them cheating one


Please help and thank yo

[rowanwitch]

It's never that simple, but if she felt neglected, or unloved, or you had a bad temper she might have been easier to tempt away. There is seldom 100% blame on one side. Think about the life you had together, learn from it and move on. If your family think it might be your fault then find one of you get on best with and listen to w h at they think, you might not agree with it but information and understanding help s changes happen.

[EDDIE51]

The answer to your problem is stated in your question
''I was extremely jealous of my wife and I'm still am ''
Your family can see it is your extreme jealousy that is the root of all your problems. You need to accept that you have a serious problem, your family are trying to get you to understand that.
It is no good running around trying to find someone that will tell you what you want to hear. It just will never happen, I am sure people on here will also tell you that your jealousy is the cause of your problems.

[Hordeaz]

PLEASE READ ABOVE

MY CHEATING WIFE THREW MY DAUGHTER OUT OF ARE HOUSE BECAUSE SHE CAME HOME LATE FROM SEEING HER BOYFRIEND SHE IS ONLY 16

[kvalidir]

You didn't say any of that in your question. What is it you actually want to know and why did your son hit you?