"Maybe, but my contention is that there are more relationships in which there is something wrong, than is admitted and it may, even be, that these flawed relationships are indeed the norm, based on my definition of norm..i.e more than 50%."
If i says to a lady, do you want to be in a normal relationship, i guarantee you sqad they will not take that as "oh, most relationships are dysfunctional, so this guy is asking me for a dysfunctional relationship"...