Is My Mom A Good Mom?

[GadgetBent]

Is my Mom a good Mom? My Mom thinks she's right all the time. She states her opinion of why we should stop “Talking back” when we cant even state our own opinion, even in a calm way. Apparently this is talking back. Whenever I raise my voice because I am getting angry at her she keeps saying I am “Talking back”. She does not agree with my opinions because it is not what is “Best for me” Even though I want to do things and learn to code, my mom does not agree with it. She says I am being rude when she is being rude as well. The only reason I am being rude is because she is making me angry. She will fly into a rage whenever I bring up the truth about her being, these traits. She is a hypocrite. She tells us not to do rude things when she herself does them. She always complains about her job and it's really annoying when I can't complain about school, or something I would like to do. Again, she calls this, talking back. Please help me I need to know if I should get help or just live with it.

[Mozz71]

Adults.can do "rude things", many of which children shouldn't do. What kind of opinions does she hold that you disagree with?

[scorpiojo]

..and how old are you?

[GadgetBent]

Oh yes I am 13, and the ideas I disagree with is that she basically thinks she is right all the time. She basically thinks she is the gospel and anything she says is automatically correct and no one should disagree with it or shame upon them.

[Mozz71]

She's stubborn, and by the sounds of it, so are you. At 13, the chances are that she does know better than you, but I know from my experience that you're at an age when you also think you are right all the time. Because you clash, it doesn't mean she's a bad mother, she has your best interests at heart I'm sure. We have a phrase here in the UK that I'm afraid applies to you at the moment: Suck it up. You'll probably have a 13 year old child one day. You'll see how much hard work they are!

[GadgetBent]

Thank you so much! I will try my best to improve!