Was It Rude Of Me Telling Him I Wanted Someone Taller Than Me?

[abbeyleigh]

Basically I went on a date with someone from a dating app yesterday didn't go well and he shorter than me but sometimes you can't tell in pics. I also didn't enjoy his company. He messaged me after saying he don't think we're suited and I said I agree I wanted someone taller than me

[Neveracrossword]

The dating app stuff doesn't seem to have been very useful so far. Will you continue trying to meet people that way?

[Atheist]

Vagus; I do think that we shouldn't just give in to this culture of rudeness just because everybody else is doing it. Suppose abbey had been told that her t**s were too small or big. Is that acceptable? He just said that he thought they weren't suitable (him and her btw, not her t**s). She got a bit cross and was a bit more personal. I think it would have been better if she hadn't done that.

[douglas9401]

I'm sure Abbey's bosom is perfectly proportioned.

[abbeyleigh]

Cross? While I was there all I was thinking about was the end of the date and do I block him as soon as it ends

[douglas9401]

https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2020/12/23/09/37180616-9082059-image-a-10_1608716533193.jpg

[Vagus]

No, I don’t think it’s rude.
If a short person was really nice then the shortness probably wouldn’t be an issue, possibly.
However, this shorty didn’t want to take it further anyway so why not tell it as it is..you’re too short for me so I don’t want to take it further either.
I don’t see any issue with it.

[Cloverjo]

Little man syndrome. My husband has it

[Hazlinny]

Just keep a look-out at the Rugby tomorrow, Abbey. There should be some big strapping lads in the crowd who might buy you a drink.

[smurfchops]

Abbie, do you have any friends or relatives you could talk to about deciding on things, or help with meeting boys, etc?

[Togo]

The women's Rugby is on tomorrow. Maybe "ab" would prefer that?