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abbeylee90 | 13:50 Tue 03rd Oct 2023 | Family & Relationships
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To this date met this guy online part of me is unsure 

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Canary may have put it fairly directly - but he's right.  Get out and meet people - do things that you like and see who also likes them: could be deep-sea diving (unlikely) or whatever you like to do.  Moere likely to meet someone with whom you have something in common.T.B.H. Using an online dating site smacks of desperation to me.  I met my first husband at...
20:14 Tue 03rd Oct 2023
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Avatar Image Moorea7

More details, please, Abbey.

13:52 Tue 03rd Oct 2023
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This guy I'm speaking to wants to met up and go on a date I met him online and i just wondered if I should attended the date 

13:55 Tue 03rd Oct 2023
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Is this what your pub visit is tonight?What part of you is unsure?

13:56 Tue 03rd Oct 2023
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Go.

13:56 Tue 03rd Oct 2023
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Just meeting him

13:57 Tue 03rd Oct 2023
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I really meant more details about him  .. what you know, age, etc.

13:58 Tue 03rd Oct 2023
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Is he on a dating app?

14:00 Tue 03rd Oct 2023
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If you go...tell someone the time and place. Make sure they can contact you if necessary. 

14:03 Tue 03rd Oct 2023
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Yeah so he is 27 lives with parents and works Monday to Friday 

14:03 Tue 03rd Oct 2023
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Good advice from Pasta.....

and don't leave your drink unattended 

14:04 Tue 03rd Oct 2023
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Toy boy

14:05 Tue 03rd Oct 2023
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Thanks, Abbey. I remember you were in this sort of predicament before and were given much advice then.  Why don't you just go - seeing is believing.  He might just be Mr. Right.

14:07 Tue 03rd Oct 2023
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Abbey, we can't decide your life for you.

 

Only you know if you're interested enough to bother going. 

14:09 Tue 03rd Oct 2023
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How long have you been talking to him - and what's giving you doubts?

14:23 Tue 03rd Oct 2023
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Take a friend with you. If if you do go, have a friend to call you making out it is an emergency so you can make a getaway!!

14:28 Tue 03rd Oct 2023
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Is he driving his car to the pub or using a bus ?

14:37 Tue 03rd Oct 2023
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Just tell him you'd like to chat some more online and get to know him better before meeting. How much do you know about him already, for example do you share the same interests, have a similar sense of humour etc?

14:44 Tue 03rd Oct 2023
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How long have you been chatting on line. What do you know about him re interests and family. Does he have siblings.

Arrange for a friend to call you at a certain time and have a code word for "all is ok" and one for "help"

15:17 Tue 03rd Oct 2023
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She can chat all she wants to online but she will never 'know' what he is really like - he could be feeding her a load of lies.

The only way forward is to meet him and if you do want to see him again, get to know him and his family slowly.  

15:21 Tue 03rd Oct 2023
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Send the part of you that is sure and see how it goes.

15:24 Tue 03rd Oct 2023

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