News1 min ago
Should I End The Relationship?
Over the last couple of months my girlfriend who I live with for seven years,I moved in so we could be together, has started using the kitchen as a living room! Doesn't even sit with me in the living room anymore I told her it's weird but she says it's so she can smoke im a non smoker but this is ridiculous now I feel like a lodger and regret giving up my flat to move in 65 miles away from my home town in London she has various health issues and I'm down as her carer due to some mobility issues now and again when her back goes and can't walk ect I would rather she admit she is not happy with us but she takes no responsibility for much
Talk with her (not at her) and see if you can find a way through. Your post says you are looking for her to take responsibility. You have told her it is weird - but have you tried asking her in a non-confrontational way what the issue is. If you tell someone something is weird, they are going to feel attacked but if you ask them about their feelings, they are more likely to discuss these things. If you have difficulty communicating, seek a relationship counsellor.
It is not for us to tell you whether to end your relationship. Only you know whether you should end it - if you are not happy, you either need to communicate and fix it or make the decision yourself to end things.