Sheffield Childrens Hospital C/D 5/1
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The man I know from dogs home anyway he doesn't come down anymore as he won't wear a hi vi's of theirs, he hasn't been for a month and this morning hemessaged me saying dog walking off until Monday due to kennel cough and I said he don't go down there no more and said he been down twice this week but not to walk dogs. I just brought up in conversation I drove round by where we've been yesterday. He messaged back and said ''We been loads of places, before you became mrs the answers NO, now what's the question". Truth is I'm focusing on new things in life like hoping to find a man so he would have to get use to it anyway as can't see me hanging out with him if that was to happen.
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Abby, please read and think about this. To 'find a man' is NOT the most important thing in life. Find yourself and your life first - THAT is what is important.
When you've done that (and it can be hard) you will be amazed at what can happen - and your life with any man who appreciates youwill be a good one. If there is no-one, then OK there's no-one - but you will have yourself. That is very important.
Please read this carefully at least 3 times.
You have been telling us for months that this poor man is being slated by other, but you continued to take gifts from him and lifts and lunch dates.
I said it before and I will say it again!
you used him for you own means!
stop being mean to him, tell him you are not interested in a friendship with him and there is no future with you and stop texting and chatting with him!
you are not a child
Abbey, why don't you move on from the 'using him' discussion? You say you're 'focusing on new things in life' - what are you actually doing? (I know you're very keen to find a man, but that's not actually 'doing' anything!). Taking another lowly-paid part-time job won't get you out of the 'my life is rotten, my life is going nowhere' stuff that preoccupies you at times.
Abbey. it's not that difficult.If the man messages you with a bit of news about the dogs home, all you have to do is say 'Thanks for letting me know' and get on with the rest of your day, life. This stuff about you not going to 'hang out' with the man once you have 'found a man' is really just ... nonsense.
Abbey, you seem to still find this man - his taste in women, little remarks he makes to you - fascinating in some ways. Can't you just let it go? You can't be spending a lot of time 'focussing on new things in life', if you're having conversations with him and then asking us questions (the same old questions) all over again!
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