Is It Silly To All Of A Sudden Feel This Way?

[abbeylee90]

The guy I have mentioned think was called sleepover guy I've all of a sudden developed feelings for him even though he said he didn't want to keep seeing as he felt there was something missing and I told him I didnt see the point in us talking. 

[davebro3]

Time AB had a "filter" to blank out posters you don't wish to see or engage with.

[bednobs]

ive Often thought and ignore button would be useful. Really we should just have enough control of ourselves to ignore people we don't want to engage with, however it proves a bit difficult!
I also often thought it would be useful instead of suspending somebody or banning them there is the possibility to make it so that no one can see their posts. Then they wonder why everyone is ignoring them!

[netherfield]

If people stopped replying then the post would end naturally.

[abbeylee90]

Said he really liked me but don't think there's romance. 

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, move on - you're beginning to come across as a bit desperate now! 

[Madgeorge]

"Sleepover guy" should be an obvious clue to his romantic intentions.

[abbeylee90]

Well I been looking for a while but not go for anyone. 

[Neveracrossword]

Yes, maybe time to give up on dating apps, you've given them a good shot for long enough....

[Hazlinny]

Abbey, surely in Cardiff there are clubs, pubs, leisure centres, etc. where you might meet some nice guy - see him face to face, chat, etc.  You don't have much success on dating sites!

[Peter Pedant]

No it is natural

look on it as sort of buyer's regret

 

 

 

[douglas9401]

Welcome back Peter. 😊

[abbeylee90]

I sometimes go pubs and clubs and drinks and walking. 

[Peter Pedant]

there was some very good advice that has been deleted Abbie

[gulliver1]

I think Abbeylee is really a secret Mod trying to drum up trade for this ailing site .

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, yes, you seem to have a pretty good social life - but I think you're so keen to find 'the one' you could be sabotaging things for yourself! 

[Canary42]

A watched pot never boils

[jourdain2]

I advised Abbey, well over a year ago (I think) to actually go out and meet people. 

Abbey, you've only developed 'feelings' for this guy because he is no longer interested in you.  I'm assuming that you were daft enough to sleep with him despite the 'sleepover guy' tag.  You are piqued. He doesn't care, you are on a hiding to nothing, give him up.

Be more careful next time.