he wants to live with his dad
hi, my son is 13 , he has always lived with me but regually see his dad, more than the contact order state,s but just over a week ago me and my son fell out over his school report, and then crept out and rang his dad saying he had run away , his dad proceeded to ring the police and social services and report me for abusing my son, i did smack him on the leg , i thought the best way to deal with this is to let him have some space he will come home when his ready, after speaking to my ex mum she said he was,nt coming home because my son is *terrified * of my new husband we have been together for 11 years, and never had a problem, so i told my husband to go and stay with his dad for a few days till i get to the bottom of things, but the next day i got served with a court order and in the statement there was no mention of my hushband and that it was me ha was scared of, i spoke to social services and they assured me nobody had made any allegations against myself and she gave me some reaaly good advice (off the record) with i have done, but things are not getting any better i have spoke to my son and 100% believe he is being manipulated , he told me he is attending court next week and has already gave a statement to his dads solicitor , so i ended up falling out with him again because i think he is to young to be this involved, escpecially as i have agreed for him to stay at his dad.s thinking he will soon get fed up , but his dad and family will not give up till they have full costody which dead and over come, s to mind will i let him have that, he has been grated a temperay residence order until we go back to court, but im so scared i am losing my son , any idea,s thanks