Why does my mum act in this strange way? why won't she go out/meet anyone?

[Willow22]

I need some advice. I am a teenager and my mother behaves in a very strange/unusual way and I need to understamd why. Can anyone help? my mum hardly ever goes out of the house...apart from when she occasionally goes shopping..but even then it's ussually almost always to the same place. Also she goes for walks to the forest..but she always chooses to go purposefully when their are hardly any people and says that she hates it when there are lots of people about (she looks irritated/slightly annoyed when she says this) also she doesn't really have any friends to be honest and ahe doesn't go many places. Also when other people come around to the house, for example if someone is delivering a parcel she will put on a sort of false, bright, polite act and it's not how she normally is at all. Also...she never answers the telephone. my dad aways has to and I have never really known her to phone anyone other than her relatives and a few others. She also never really takes me out anywhere or teaches me about the world. she hardly seems to know how to raise me/what to say to me and she is quite cold at times.Why does she hbaheve like this? please can anyone tell me ?? it's just that it is starting to effect me
e.g. I lack people skills..never get taken out anywhere/taught anything.
It would really help me if I could understand why she behaves like this

[ummmm]

http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Jobs-and-Educat ion/Question320268.html

[ummmm]

and does posting the same question over and over and over again make you feel better?

[ummmm]

Here's some advice that I think you should follow.

1. click on my profile
2. scroll to the bottom of the page
3. click on my questions
4. read through them again.....it might take you a while because even the banned ones will be in there
5. take the advice that some of the kind people on here gave you
6. p*ss off

[loukr]

blah... blah... blah... you seem to think you're the only person in the world who has been through 'hell'... well I think you should maybe get out more.. I bet alot of the people here on AB have been through things as bad if not, worse than you, but we choose to move on and not hold onto things... stop thinking about yourself there's pleanty of other people far worse off than you but you're too dim to open your eyes and see it. just grow up and like ummmm said... p*ss off.

[ummmm]

lol....you make me laugh....

Willow22....Have you ever heard about the third world?

Actually....Read the book 'a boy called it'

[mandimoo]

willow, YOU need help. not on here, but go to the doctors and get some counselling. if all your problems are real, you need to be able to talk about them without getting attacked. coming on here is frustrating you (and other users by the sound of it), so get help where you will be supported. even if you are making all this up - i still think you need counselling, because if you are making it all up you have some odd fantasy life going on, which needs addressing. i am not judging you one way or another. i do believe you have a problem, i just cant work out whether your posts are real or fantasy, whichever they are you need support for one or the other.

[ummmm]

Have you read her questions......do a search.....it makes for some interesting reading

[loukr]

ummmm have you counted them up yet?? might take some time but would be interesting to see!!