hot and cold

[xJx]

i've written in on here a few times just because i like to get everyone else points of view on my situation rather than talking to my boyfriend because i don't want it to look like im making a fuss. since monday my boyfriend has been hot and cold. one minute he is telling me how much he loves me and wants us 2 get a house eventually and the next (like tonight) he hasn't contacted me. last night i didnt hear from him either. spoke to him today and he said about seeing each other tonight but i havent heard a word since. my ex boyfriend has recently come home from america and i know he has been very uneasy about this but i have assured him over and over again that he has nothing to worry about so i dont think that this is the problem. either something is up with him or he is being very laid back which he normally is but not to this degree. i just dont understand how he can go from two extremes. im getting worried that he is losing interest espcially as he keeps making a point of telling me that his ex keeps texting him showing interest again. help! im getting so worked up x

[girlieflirt]

Hi..Don't worry petal, men are funny creatures at times...It is possible he is feeling uneasy about your ex coming back from USA..He may be acting fine when you speak or see each other, as he has the reassurance from you, telling him that everything is completely over. But may be when he is on his own, his mind might start going into overdrive and he's thinking things that aren't actually happening...If i were you, i would maintain the same level of contact, don't adjust your behaviour, as then he may suspect something is wrong...Or just be honest with him and explain how you are feeling; he may be honest with you back..Hope you feel better soon...x x

[havinmysay]

im sorry but why is his ex texting him especially when she is ''showing interest''
Is he texting her back?
have u phoned him tonight?

[ugly_bob]

It is possible that he's just been going down the pub after work or something. He is male after all. And it's nearly christmas. Have to admit I've been to the pub every night this week