boyfriends that dont think

[carlyo2le]

iv been so nervous all day because im having a new hair do done tmoz thats totally different to what iv got at the moment so iv baught some magazines and took hours to pick one that i like i finally got one and felt a bit better that i could show my hairdresser what i wanted so cut it out and put it on the side ready for tmoz, after watching bigbrother my boyfriend came in from the pub quite drunk and saw it then out the corner of my eye i saw him chewing something, i looked over and hes only chewing my picture that took ages to find he then swollows and does a smerk at me 'whats was that he says'! he knows what iv been like about it so now iv stopped talkin to him do you think im right for reacting like this? thanks

[applebee]

What? Your boyfriend ate a chunk of paper.?? Is that typical drunk behavior for him??

[tradey]

he ate the whole chunk of paper,ummm is he right in the head,has he done it to get on your nerves,if he was hungry why didnt he get something proper to eat.

[mangosam]

yes i think u are just in what u are doing

[carlyo2le]

its ok iv had it done now and its gone fine thank god! iv started talking to him now the loony!!hehe

[bednobs]

sorry carlyo2le but just have to point out :
1) I've
2) bought
3) swallows
4) smirk
it just makes it easier for the rest of us to read!

[saxy_jag]

I think revenge is necessary here.

Open up all his cans of beer because a) it needs time to breathe, and b) surely he wants the authentic 'real ale' experience (ie flat).

Then find a nice football video, or something similar, and record your favourite soap/drama/daytime telly programme over it. Make sure it's an important match or something, and then say, "well, it was old, so you didn't need it anymore".

Or you could serve him a plate of mushed up paper for dinner (it's quite good mixed in wallpaper paste, I'm told)!

[sense4all]

Do you want my recipe for Kennomeat pie? Make sure you tell him only when it's passed the point he can regurgitate it. lol. By the way they like it when we don't talk to them, I up the chat ante when he's peed me of... I ask his opinion on everything ... ha ha ha ha ha ha.

[~Wingnut~]

I think the main thing here is not just that he ate the paper (although pretty weird lol) but he knew how you had been fretting about your hair and there it was a picture of the style you wanted, you'd spent ages trying to find the right look and he goes and eats it! drunk or not, I think there is more to this than just drunken behaviour! Mind games? I'm not sure, does he do other things similar? Did he not like the style? All seems very odd.
Now you've had it done and it was ok, you've forgiven him and started talking to him, has he actually apoligised? explained why he did it?

Anyhoo, sorry for over anylising (sp?) but maybe it's some food for thought.

Take care xx

[ummmm]

Bednobs???????????????

[~Wingnut~]

*analysing sorry just come back and remembered how it is spelt, had to correct it. Can't believe I spelt it like that!

[E B]

Its typical drunken behaviour for a man, it's quite likely that he just thought it was a funny thing to do, I would suggest. Few men like change and he could not imagine how it would look on you and didn't know how to put his views into words.

My husband would not let me cut my hair for years as he did not like short hair, we are not together any more and I went for a complete style change, I lightened my hair and now wear it straight and fairly short - to my suprise he said he liked it and it suited me.

Next time do what you want with your hair without discussion with him, its your hair and it will always grow back if you don't like it. This way it could save on the unpleasantness of your recent experience.

[carlyo2le]

my boyfriend told me to go for it, it was me that was worried! he just thought it was funny to do and says he never knew what it was! next time ill try with the speaking more! hehe thanks all oh ye bednobs how sad are you pointing out all them you must be a right saddo with nothing better to do if it was an english essay then far enough but its answer bank i hate people like that grow up you weirdo!

[sarnieken]

No offence and this is entirely a first impression based upon what you have put down but he seems like a bit of a tool. Am sure with your new hair do that you could meet someone who doesn't find enjoyment in eating paper?
Just a thought. :)
Glad you liked your hair do btw. :)