GUYS ONLY - What is the best way to win back an ex?

[sssg4]

Hi,

Just wondering the best tactics...nothing major happened. May just be on a 'break' but not seen him for a week and a half now. Am trying to do the non contact thing but am getting contradictory advice from all the men in my life. Some tell me to leave him be and he knows where I am. Others tell me that men are stupid and I should just spell out how I feel.

I have to do all I can to get this guy back because it was silly how we came to this and I know it can be sorted out

Ta

[Reverandfunk]

Middle ground, contact him once and see what happens.

[sssg4]

Well we have been in contact...odd call and text here and there but nothing serious other than him telling me he missed the good times we shared. Think he got over that though as been small talk recently.

[mrknowall]

Well you say there was small talk how he missed the good times.
Well you should of said why not go for a drink he wont say it again because you never followed up.
Why not say the same to him and see what he says
Just ask him does he fancy a drink as freinds see what he says
I wish you well

[mullein]

Hi, I believe this is decision time, If you want him, you have to meet him, face to face and tell him how you feel. If there are still feelings there everything will work out, if not it wont. Dont leave it too long as your relationship could fizzle out to nothing and you will never trully know why. best of luck.

[ultraman]

sometimes things take time to work out other times it can be fixed right away sometimes people get mad at each other and know one wants to talk to the other person at that moment in time sometimes people when they are upset want to see if the other person will come and talk to them first because they may feel they are not the one at fault